Living Your Dash

  

Recently, a dear friend gave me a copy of How Did You Live Your Dash? by Linda Ellis. Not only is it beautiful in its simplicity but it speaks volumes.

 

I read of a man who stood to speak

at the funeral of a friend.

He referred to the dates on her tombstone

from the beginning . . . to the end.

 

He noted that first came her date of birth.

And spoke the following date with tears.

Was the dash between those years. (1934-1998)

 

For that dash represents all the time

that she spent alive on earth . . .

and now only those who loved her

know what that little line is worth.

 

For it matters not, how much we own;

the cars . . . the house . . . the cash,

what matters is how we live and love

and how we spend our dash.

 

So think about this long and hard . . .

Are there things you'd like to change?

For you never know how much time is left

that can still be rearranged.

 

If we could just slow down enough

to consider what's true and real,

and always try to understand

the way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger,

and show appreciation more

and love the people in our lives

like we've never loved before.

 

If we treat each other with respect

and more often wear a smile

remembering that this special dash

might only last a little while.

 

So, when your euology's being read

with your life's actions to rehash . . .

would you be proud of the things they say

about how you spent your dash?

 

Namaste

Chris